Parenting Wisdom - Proverbs 2 - Grace Bible College

Parenting Wisdom - Proverbs 2 - Grace Bible College

Parenting Wisdom The humor of the topic Having children is like living in a frat house - nobody sleeps, everything's broken, and there's a lot of throwing up. Ray Romano

The honor of the topic Life affords no greater responsibility, no greater privilege, than the raising of the next generation C. Everett Koop The BREVITY OF THE JOB kids don't stay with you if you do it right. It's the one job

where, the better you are, the more surely you won't be needed in the long run. The terror of the topic Parenting is the greatest single preserve of the amateur. Alvin Toffler

Refresher: what proverbs Wisdom is all about which includes... Discernment Character Knowledge Skill The unwise

Nave Youth, Mocker, The Fool Refresher: What proverbs is all about Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Parentings purpose Whats YOUR purpose (for your child)? To Trust Christ What else (be honest)? Whats PROVERBS purpose for parenting? Parentings purpose Proverbs 2:1-5

My son, if you will receive my words and treasure my commandments within you, make your ear attentive to wisdom and incline your heart to understanding; for if you cry for discernment and lift your voice for understanding Parentings purpose Proverbs 2:1-6ff if you seek for her as for hidden

treasures; then you will discern the fear of the Lord and discover the knowledge of God. For the Lord gives wisdom... Parentings purpose Whats YOUR purpose (for your child)? To Trust Christ What else (be honest)? Whats PROVERBS purpose for parenting?

True to itself, Proverbs goal is WISDOM which is solidly grounded Roadblocks to Wisdom Every new model has a defect sin Genesis 8:21 for the intent of a mans heart is evil from his youth Jeremiah 17:9

The heart is more deceitful than all else and is desperately sick Roadblocks to Wisdom Each child comes with a flaw sin Their natural bent is toward foolishness Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child

Roadblocks to Wisdom Each child comes with a flaw sin Their natural bent is toward foolishness AndLeft to themselves, they get worse! Proverbs 29:15 a child who gets his own way brings

Proverbs way to wisdom: Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child the rod of discipline will remove it far from him. Proverbs way to wisdom: DISCIPLINE

Proverbs way to wisdom: Where it begins... discipline Faith in Christ, Power of the Holy Spirit Parent on Purpose Learn, decide, agree & stick with it

Proverbs way to wisdom: Dissecting Discipline discipline Three Intensifying Stages Instruction/Knowledge/The Word Warning/Exhortation/Rebuke Punishment/Chastisement 3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word)

Proverbs 1:8-9 Hear, my son, your fathers discipline and do not forsake your mothers instruction, for they are a graceful wreath upon your head and ornaments around your neck. 3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word) Proverbs 4:1

Hear, O sons, the instruction of a father, and give attention that you may gain understanding, for I give you sound teaching; do not abandon my instruction. 3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word) Warning (Exhortation/Rebuke) Proverbs 3:12

a father corrects the son in whom he delights. 3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word) Warning (Exhortation/Rebuke) Proverbs 4:26-27 Watch the path of your feetdo not turn to the right or to the left

3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word) Warning (Exhortation/Rebuke) Proverbs 24:25 but to those who rebuke the wicked will be delight, and a good blessing will come upon them. 3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word)

Warning (Exhortation/Rebuke) Chastening (Punishment) Proverbs 13:24 He who withholds his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently. 3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word) Warning (Exhortation/Rebuke)

Chastening (Punishment) Proverbs 23:13-14 Do not hold back discipline from the child, although you strike him with the rod, he will not die. You shallrescue his soul from Sheol. 3 facets of discipline Instruction (Knowledge/The Word) Warning (Exhortation/Rebuke)

Chastening (Punishment) Proverbs 29:15 The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother. Proverbs way to wisdom: More about Punishment... discipline Love as the Foundation

Proverbs 3:12 a father corrects the son in whom he delights. Proverbs way to wisdom: More about Punishment... discipline Love as the Foundation

Proverbs 3:12 For whom the Lord loves, He chastens, as a father corrects the son in whom he delights. Proverbs way to wisdom: More about Punishment... discipline Love as the Foundation

Consequential makes an impact Consequences: Natural and Created -Match the offense, match the child Non-Corporal Consistent & creative Proverbs way to wisdom: discipline

Proverbs 13:24 He who withholds his rod, hates his son, but he who loves him, disciplines him diligently. Proverbs way to wisdom: discipline Egyptian Proverb Boys have their ears in their backsides;

they listen when they are beaten. Proverbs way to wisdom: discipline A few words to those who do and those who dont Cultivating wisdom with discipline Your Childs (and YOUR) Faith in Christ

Grace and Discipline Pointers from Parents on Discipline From some of graces parents People are more important than things. We buy memories, not stuff. We discipline quickly, and forgive immediately when asked. No keeping

accounts. From some of graces We strive to parent FIRST from the parents positive. In other words, instead of emphasizing our opposition to negative behavior, we talk (and train) proactively toward the positive behavior we desire

to see. You cant do this re-actively. We even keep a list on the fridge that reminds us of the positives which From some of graces The single most important thing a father parents can do to turn his children's heart toward Christ is to sincerely loves Christ himself and to communicate that

consistently both in and outside the home. The thing that can turn a child's heart away from Christ the most is to see his father appear to follow God in front of others but not at home. From some of graces "There are, of course, many factors that parents contribute to good parenting such as

conveying unconditional love, providing quality time and setting a good example, particularly in the husbandwife relationship. But one of the most important is to establish and maintain control. From some of graces In the final analysis this is achieved parents

through discipline as clearly taught in the Proverbs. We have found that authority must be established early, preferably before the child is five; however, it will continue through the early years of childhood. Proverbs 19:8 clearly implies that such discipline From some of graces Although the discipline may be difficult

parents for both the child and the parent, the rewards are great. This proverb states that failure to train the child could result in premature death. More generally, discipline will result in comfort/rest and delight to your soul (29:17), as well as joy and pleasure (23:24,25). God has graciously blessed us through our

What do we do with all 1. Pray! this? 2. Begin Today: Lavish, Unconditional Love 3. Agree Soon: Your goal(s), your standards 4. Keep Going: Consistent love &

discipline 5. Past Mistakes? Time to step up! What do we do with all 5. KIDS work with us

its good for you! this? Proverbs 20:20 He who curses his father or mother, his lamp will go out in time of darkness.

What do we do with all 5. KIDS work with us its good

for you! this? Proverbs 2:4-5 if you seek (wisdom) as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures; then you will discern the fear of the Lord and discover the knowledge of God. What do we do with all

5. KIDS work with us its good for

you! this? Ephesians 6:1-3 Children obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your Father and Mother (which is the first commandment with a promise) so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth.

What do we do now? 6. Parent in Community! -Look for Parenting with Grace -Are you in a small group? Home Groups, Sunday Morning Groups, First Call, Mom to Mom Reception TODAY between services Resources

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